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miWisdom today… If fate has a tendency to put you into inconvenient and uncomfortable situations, you must make a stand, look it straight in the eye, and challenge it head on. Life brings us certain people, events and circumstances in order to challenge us emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally. If we avoid these challenges and attempt to resign to our fate, we will never learn, and therefore fate will come back to visit us all over again until the day we learn to overcome these challenges successfully.

  • What challenges do I face in my daily life that tend to reappear on a constant and consistent basis?
  • Do I tackle these challenges head on, or do I tend to avoid them out of fear or insecurity?
  • What can I learn from the times I tended to avoid these challenges?
  • What will I do next time a challenge of this nature forces me into a corner?
  • Do I understand that doing the same thing will almost always get me the same result?

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miWisdom today… To rip someone out of a negative emotional state, one must either do something that will unexpectedly surprise, frighten or excite this person right in the moment.

  • How can I surprise or excite this person without further dampening their emotional state?
  • How can I frighten this person out of this emotional state in a clever way that will take their mind off of these negative feelings while directing them in a completely new and possibly transformational direction?

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miWisdom today… People always feel that they own other people’s life and time, and when someone else encroaches upon this other person’s life and time, these people feel threatened as though they are about to lose something significant. This is the state of insecurity at its core, a fear of losing something one believes is theirs to begin with.

  • Do I really care about this person’s happiness, or am I serving my own personal interests?

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