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miWisdom today… When one is angry, that anger is only the external manifestation of a hidden self-conscious emotion trying to express itself, trying to get noticed, while seeking healing, comfort and support.

Instead of getting upset at others because of their anger, it is best to try and understand them, to get a sense as to where they might be hurting, a sense for their hidden pain which is in actuality manifesting externally into angry and potentially hurtful emotions.

The next time a person responds to you in an angry and abrupt manner, ask yourself the following questions:

  • What is the underlying message that they are trying to express?
  • What are they really trying to say on an unconscious level?
  • Where is this person seeking comfort, healing and support?
  • How can I best provide them with this comfort, healing and support?
  • How can I reassure them that they are understood and supported?

If you have a similar learning experience or would like to add to the list of questions, you may do so by commenting below.


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