Posted in Deception, Emotions, Forgiveness, Relationships, Trust, Understanding on October 6, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… Over long periods of time we invest a lot of time and emotional energy into other people. If suddenly these people were to betray us, it would no doubt hurt, and questions would need to be answered…
Can I still trust this person?
Can I learn to forgive them for their betrayal?
Can I learn to [...]
Posted in Assistance, Conflict, Relationships, Self Esteem, Understanding on October 5, 2007 | 4 Comments »
miWisdom today… When one is angry, that anger is only the external manifestation of a hidden self-conscious emotion trying to express itself, trying to get noticed, while seeking healing, comfort and support.
Instead of getting upset at others because of their anger, it is best to try and understand them, to get a sense as to [...]
Posted in Insight, Lies, Negotiation, Understanding on September 21, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… To really get an accurate insight into people’s motives, one must pay close attention not to their visible actions, words or behaviours, but rather to their unconscious actions, words and behaviours.
I hear the person talking, but what are they really saying?
What is the underlying meaning and intention behind these words?
I see what this [...]
Posted in Insight, Questions, Understanding on September 20, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… How something is written and what it intrinsically means can be at two opposite ends of the pole. Therefore, to sometimes make sense of the obvious one must dig a little deeper and question the content of the material from different angles and perspectives.
What is the surface meaning of this writing?
What was the [...]
Posted in Influence, Insight, Relationships, Understanding on September 19, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… You must be constantly aware of how others are perceiving your behaviour. You might think that you are building relationships, when in fact you are hurting them through your decisions and actions. Understand that everyone is different and each individual has alternating levels of comfort that they feel around certain types of people. [...]
Posted in Insight, Relationships, Trust, Understanding on September 19, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… Never doubt another person at the first instance despite any personal prior history that may bring about doubt. Always keep your mind open and try to understand where they are coming from, what they are gaining from holding onto this perspective, and how they are looking at the situation.
Where is this person’s perspective [...]
