miWisdom today… Over long periods of time we invest a lot of time and emotional energy into other people. If suddenly these people were to betray us, it would no doubt hurt, and questions would need to be answered…
Can I still trust this person?
Can I learn to forgive them for their betrayal?
Can I learn to [...]
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miWisdom today… One mustn’t reveal what one has learnt or discovered about another person if one is still uncertain about this person’s motives and intentions. Instead, one must buy more time and act as though one is not aware of this new found information.
First, take your time to really get to know this person in [...]
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miWisdom today… People can be incredibly inconsiderate of others when they are too absorbed in their own life, problems, work and agenda. Even with the best of intentions, during these moments they may hurt their relationships with others unintentionally not even thinking twice about their decisions or actions. Soon they will wake up and observe [...]
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miWisdom today… One occasionally is left with no option but to bend the truth at times in order to protect others from potential harm.
If I am to be completely honest and upfront with this person how will it effect them mentally, emotionally and physically?
Is this the right time to reveal the truth, or should I [...]
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Posted in Deception, Insight, Trust on September 19, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… In essence (however, not under all circumstances), people don’t change. Therefore if you couldn’t trust someone in the past, than you must be very wary and careful if trusting them in the present despite any apparent good deeds they may have contributed in bringing your way. Watch out for their hidden agenda.
How has [...]
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miWisdom today… Never doubt another person at the first instance despite any personal prior history that may bring about doubt. Always keep your mind open and try to understand where they are coming from, what they are gaining from holding onto this perspective, and how they are looking at the situation.
Where is this person’s perspective [...]
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Posted in Belief, Faith, Trust on September 18, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… When people believe in you wholeheartedly based on faith alone, than despite occasional contradictions in your character and life, their belief will remain constant and true throughout.
How can I gain other people’s trust and faith in me and my abilities, visions and dreams?
If you have a similar learning experience or would like to [...]
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