You Never Really Know a Person Until…

miWisdom today… One mustn’t reveal what one has learnt or discovered about another person if one is still uncertain about this person’s motives and intentions. Instead, one must buy more time and act as though one is not aware of this new found information.
First, take your time to really get to know this person in [...]

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The Search for Hidden Intentions

miWisdom today… To really get an accurate insight into people’s motives, one must pay close attention not to their visible actions, words or behaviours, but rather to their unconscious actions, words and behaviours.

I hear the person talking, but what are they really saying?
What is the underlying meaning and intention behind these words?
I see what this [...]

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The Truth May Not Set them Free!

miWisdom today… One occasionally is left with no option but to bend the truth at times in order to protect others from potential harm.

If I am to be completely honest and upfront with this person how will it effect them mentally, emotionally and physically?
Is this the right time to reveal the truth, or should I [...]

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Don’t Throw in the Towel Just Yet!

miWisdom today… When it appears as though you have been suddenly caught in the act (any type of act will do), and the other person seems to know what you are up to, it is not yet time to throw in the towel. Instead go along with what the other person is assuming and slowly [...]

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Denying the Truth

miWisdom today… If people have a hidden agenda, they will deny the truth despite evidence to the contrary.

What is this person trying to hide from me?

If you have a similar learning experience or would like to add to the list of questions, you may do so by commenting below.

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Bending the Truth

miWisdom today… People say things that aren’t true in order to initially sway you in one direction or another. Once you have made a commitment, it becomes more difficult for you to backaway from the decision even though alternative information has now been presented to you.

Does this person have a hidden agenda?
What exactly is this [...]

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