You Never Really Know a Person Until…

miWisdom today… One mustn’t reveal what one has learnt or discovered about another person if one is still uncertain about this person’s motives and intentions. Instead, one must buy more time and act as though one is not aware of this new found information.
First, take your time to really get to know this person in [...]

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Relationships are about the Finer Details

miWisdom today… Building strong relationships with others all rests upon the finer details. It is all about knowing a matrix of interesting habits, hobbies, likes, values, beliefs and ideas about the other person which usually determines the strength of your relationship with them. By knowing and understanding these intricacies you will not only be a [...]

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The Search for Hidden Intentions

miWisdom today… To really get an accurate insight into people’s motives, one must pay close attention not to their visible actions, words or behaviours, but rather to their unconscious actions, words and behaviours.

I hear the person talking, but what are they really saying?
What is the underlying meaning and intention behind these words?
I see what this [...]

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Oddities Beneath the Surface

miWisdom today… One must always look beneath the surface of all events one encounters, being observant of strange oddities and other inconsistencies that are riddled with circumstance or people’s behaviour. By being aware, one will learn to understand life at a higher level, and will be better able to make more insightful decisions as one [...]

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Am I Lucky, or am I Not?

miWisdom today… Good fortune doesn’t always lead to a better life, nor does bad luck lead to a life of despair, suffering and anguish. It is not what happens to us but rather what we do with circumstances that makes all the difference in the end.

This seems like bad luck on the surface, however, what [...]

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Only the tip of the Iceberg

miWisdom today… How something is written and what it intrinsically means can be at two opposite ends of the pole. Therefore, to sometimes make sense of the obvious one must dig a little deeper and question the content of the material from different angles and perspectives.

What is the surface meaning of this writing?
What was the [...]

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Holding Back Your Trust

miWisdom today… In essence (however, not under all circumstances), people don’t change. Therefore if you couldn’t trust someone in the past, than you must be very wary and careful if trusting them in the present despite any apparent good deeds they may have contributed in bringing your way. Watch out for their hidden agenda.

How has [...]

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The Subtle Comfort Approach

miWisdom today… You must be constantly aware of how others are perceiving your behaviour. You might think that you are building relationships, when in fact you are hurting them through your decisions and actions. Understand that everyone is different and each individual has alternating levels of comfort that they feel around certain types of people. [...]

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Search for the Weakest Link

miWisdom today… Always pay attention and search for the weakest link in your competition, then attack it with all your might when they least expect it.

Where are they most vulnerable at this time?
How can I exploit these vulnerabilities when they least expect it?

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Never Doubt Others

miWisdom today… Never doubt another person at the first instance despite any personal prior history that may bring about doubt. Always keep your mind open and try to understand where they are coming from, what they are gaining from holding onto this perspective, and how they are looking at the situation.

Where is this person’s perspective [...]

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