Posted in Deception, Emotions, Forgiveness, Relationships, Trust, Understanding on October 6, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… Over long periods of time we invest a lot of time and emotional energy into other people. If suddenly these people were to betray us, it would no doubt hurt, and questions would need to be answered…
Can I still trust this person?
Can I learn to forgive them for their betrayal?
Can I learn to [...]
Posted in Awareness, Comfort Zone, Deception, Insight, Lies, Trust on October 2, 2007 | 1 Comment »
miWisdom today… One mustn’t reveal what one has learnt or discovered about another person if one is still uncertain about this person’s motives and intentions. Instead, one must buy more time and act as though one is not aware of this new found information.
First, take your time to really get to know this person in [...]
Posted in Deception, Insight, Trust on September 19, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… In essence (however, not under all circumstances), people don’t change. Therefore if you couldn’t trust someone in the past, than you must be very wary and careful if trusting them in the present despite any apparent good deeds they may have contributed in bringing your way. Watch out for their hidden agenda.
How has [...]
Posted in Challenges, Creativity, Deception, Foresight, Lies on September 19, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… When it appears as though you have been suddenly caught in the act (any type of act will do), and the other person seems to know what you are up to, it is not yet time to throw in the towel. Instead go along with what the other person is assuming and slowly [...]
Posted in Competition, Deception, Influence on September 18, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… To get ahead in this world, to outsmart your competition and the people who are fighting for the same things that you are after, one must make others think one is doing something else, following a different path so to speak, than the path of one’s intentions. This will lead your opponents so [...]
Posted in Deception, Lies on September 17, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… If people have a hidden agenda, they will deny the truth despite evidence to the contrary.
What is this person trying to hide from me?
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Posted in Comfort Zone, Deception on September 17, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… People create the illusion of circumstance which prevents them from doing what they truly intend to do with their life.
What illusions of circumstance am I creating in my life that is preventing me from moving forward?
If you have a similar learning experience or would like to add to the list of questions, [...]
Posted in Deception, Influence on September 15, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… In order to get what you want, you may at times need to threaten the bluff which will take the other person out of their comfort zone or cause them to fear the loss of something dear or important to them.
How can I threaten the bluff in order to get what I want [...]
Posted in Assistance, Deception on September 15, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… When people offer their help and assistance out of the blue, it usually means that they have a hidden agenda, especially when they must inconvenience themselves in order to help you out.
What exactly is this person’s hidden agenda?
By accepting their help right now, what am I likely to potentially lose in the future?
If [...]
Posted in Deception, Decisions, Lies on September 15, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… People say things that aren’t true in order to initially sway you in one direction or another. Once you have made a commitment, it becomes more difficult for you to backaway from the decision even though alternative information has now been presented to you.
Does this person have a hidden agenda?
What exactly is this [...]
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