miWisdom today… When people go through periods of great difficulty in their lives, we naturally have a tendency to try and assist them through their problems by providing them with techniques and strategies that we believe will help them overcome their challenges. Is this really the right and just way to go about assisting a person [...]
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The Perils of Giving Advice to the Ones you Love
Posted in Adversity, Assistance, Challenges, Children, Family, Influence, Questions, Teaching, Transformation on October 29, 2007 | 2 Comments »
People’s Anger is Just a Cry for Help!
Posted in Assistance, Conflict, Relationships, Self Esteem, Understanding on October 5, 2007 | 4 Comments »
miWisdom today… When one is angry, that anger is only the external manifestation of a hidden self-conscious emotion trying to express itself, trying to get noticed, while seeking healing, comfort and support.
Instead of getting upset at others because of their anger, it is best to try and understand them, to get a sense as to [...]
The Subtle Approach – Subduing Anger & Resistance
Posted in Assistance, Children, Communication, Ego, Influence, Questions, Relationships on October 1, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… Getting angry or upset at others doesn’t normally work to one’s favour, as it creates resistance and throws the other person against you. Not only does the other person now see you as the enemy, they also completely resist what you have to say no matter how much logical sense your argument may [...]
What is the Greatest Gift You Can Give to Others & Yourself?
Posted in Assistance, Contribution, Giving, Humility on September 30, 2007 | 1 Comment »
miWisdom today… The most honorable way to assist people in need is to do so in an indirect manner without alluding them to the fact that you were the one who helped them in their time of need. This comes down to the principle of giving without having any expectations of receiving.
People are strange creatures [...]
Nurturing Your Hopes
Posted in Assistance, Belief, Hope, Resilience, Vision on September 20, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… Holding onto hope is never stupid no matter what anyone else tells you. Hope is like a womb that slowly but surely nurtures a belief into the world. It may take several months or years, but as long as the hope is there, and a will to fight for what one wants most [...]
Giving into Guilt
Posted in Assistance, Decisions, Guilt on September 15, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… When people are in a difficult predicament and they ask for your help; the guilt of not helping them pushes you into making a decision to give into their request based on the guilt they have made you feel in the moment.
How can I learn to better recognise when others play the guilt [...]
The Hidden Agenda
Posted in Assistance, Deception on September 15, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
miWisdom today… When people offer their help and assistance out of the blue, it usually means that they have a hidden agenda, especially when they must inconvenience themselves in order to help you out.
What exactly is this person’s hidden agenda?
By accepting their help right now, what am I likely to potentially lose in the future?
If [...]
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