miWisdom today… You must at the very least appear to be indispensable to others within your network. In this way you will hold insurmountable power of influence over your relationships with them. When you are wanted and needed for very specific reasons people will flock to you and will want to assist you with your every need, want and desire. You can become indispensable in two concrete ways:
- Become indispensable by creating a strong emotional connection or bond with the other person. If however you are unable to lock away a strong emotional connection with the person you want to influence, than your next best option is to create this bond with someone they hold very dear to their hearts. In such a way you will be able to influence them indirectly through this other person’s decisions and actions.
- Become indispensable through a specific knowledge-base or skill that this other person or network of people cannot do without.
Becoming indispensable is a skill in itself that the most successful people and companies have perfected over the course of many years. Think of the great influential minds or inventors of our time whom we just couldn’t do without. Think also about the companies (especially online companies) who we rely on completely for the products and services that they provide us each and every day. This is what being indispensable is all about, and it is one of your keys to abundance and success in life.
- How can I become indispensable to the people I seek to influence most?
- What knowledge or skill-sets must I acquire to help me achieve these goals?
- How can I create strong and long-term emotional connections and bonds with these people on a daily basis?
If you have a similar learning experience or would like to add to the list of questions, you may do so by commenting below.
